Five Lessons From A Fascinating Coaching Journey

I've always been one of those guys who learns by doing, not by listening to lectures in a classroom. I learned journalism on the fly, after getting lucky and landing a job in a sports department at 17. Later, as a publisher who needed to understand sales, printing, distribution, HR, payroll, etc., I figured it…

Five Questions For A Coach: Part Two, Betrayal Trauma

One of the phenomena I didn't expect as I entered this healthcare world as a pornography addiction coach was just how many others are affected by this disease, especially the partners. After my first book came out, I knew there'd be inquiries, but I didn't expect as many from female partners of pornography addicts. They…

Resurrecting A Once-Great Addiction and Trauma Website

When I first began this website/blog in late 2017, it was at the behest of the publisher of my soon-to-be-released first book. After three solid years of pornography addiction recovery, I was ready to tell my story and potentially launch a career as a keynote speaker, lecturing/entertaining the world to the dangers of pornography addiction…

Dusting off the blog for the first time since July

Sometimes you look for a little place to write something that’s hidden away from all but a few in this world. This blog was my place in early recovery. I looked at my stats the other day for the first time in a while, and two things jumped out at me. First, 2023 is the…