My Journey Into the Heart of Therapeutic Coaching

Like being an addict, I never planned on coaching until I was in it. People who read one of my books, heard an interview I gave, or stumbled upon the website would reach out. Whether it’s my compassionate heart, fear of saying no, or messiah complex, I’d try my best. A couple years ago, I…

Pornography Addiction Better Than I Can Ever Explain It

I'm not a scientist and explaining pornography addiction is sometimes an area I get tripped up. I don't want to talk above people, but I don't want to talk down to them. Even when I'm on a podcast where I can't see the host's face, I know it's probably glazing over when I bring up…

Hey Former Addicts, We Have the Same Disease: Addiction

A couple of days ago, a friend who has written books about her addiction approached me about a project. I won't share details about her here because it could make her identifiable and I don't want to do that. This isn't about her. She is involved in creating a book that would feature addicts of…

Yes, Older Men, You Can Still Develop a Pornography Addiction

One of the challenging things about life during the pandemic, aside from everything, has been trying to explain to people that the statistics I've been citing for a while, most from studies between 2015-2018, were likely outdated. I think this is especially true with the youngest generation, but what about older men? I believe when…

Does NoFap Work? Depends If You Actually Have A Porn Addiction

This past weekend, I put up a meme on my Instagram page. I was just trying to get something up on my page as I'm trying to build a following and try not to miss a day. Sometimes, I share deep and painful thoughts. Sometimes, I just share a joke. My Valentine's Day share was…