I’ve never been a fan of “made up” coaching titles like “Transformative Soul Coach” but I guess since it’s still a 99% unregulated industry, people can call themselves what they want. I’m trying to be straightforward with “Pornography Addiction Coach,” “Betrayal Trauma Coach” and “Therapeutic Disclosure Specialist” but even that last one is a little…
Continue reading ➞ Change Can Only Begin After Admitting You’re Stuck
And with that last little movement at 2:04 pm EST today (February 8, 2022), I have completed my 45th trip through our solar system. I'm 46 today, and I pre-planned a meltdown because it's closer to 50 than 40 and because it's closer to 90 than being born. But I'm not having one. I feel…
Continue reading ➞ Help! The TikTok Generation Succumbing to Porn Rapidly
When somebody does something idiotic, like hold up his fist in solidarity with a bunch of people who are about to storm the building he works in (which is also one of the most important buildings in the world), you should just label the person a moron and move on it with. I guess that's…
Continue reading ➞ Josh Hawley: Women & Freedom Are Porn, Video Game Addiction Causes
I had my first "a-ha!" moment in a while yesterday and since it's been so long since my outlook on something shifted on a dime, I thought it would be important to share. I'm sure most men think the way I did until yesterday and now that I reflect on it, it's embarrassing. Without any…
Continue reading ➞ Note to Self: Women May Dress Any Way They Want
I hear a lot of out-of-the-ordinary things as a trauma and addiction coach. As a recovering addict and someone who worked through a lot of trauma, my story has its share of drama. No shame and no judgment, but there are so many people who have been through worse than me. Disturbingly worse. The people…
Continue reading ➞ Horror Stories: Marriage Counseling is not Addiction Counseling
