One of the challenging things about life during the pandemic, aside from everything, has been trying to explain to people that the statistics I've been citing for a while, most from studies between 2015-2018, were likely outdated. I think this is especially true with the youngest generation, but what about older men? I believe when…
Continue reading ➞ Yes, Older Men, You Can Still Develop a Pornography Addiction
When I speed-wrote, and speed-researched my most recent book, Porn and the Pandemic: How Three Months in 2020 Changed Everything, I was just crossing my fingers that by the time in was released in mid-summer, people would still be interested in the pandemic, as I assumed it would pass. Boy, I was wrong. And it…
Continue reading ➞ OnlyFans stats show its here to stay as part of The New Normal
In the over 200 interviews or presentations I've given about pornography, there's one question that comes up more than every other, and I think a lot of people who are very passionate about this subject still haven't answered it in their own mind: Is there an actual definition of pornography? I do want to state…
Continue reading ➞ Is There An Actual Definition of Pornography?
I know that I say this in every interview and write it more than once a day as one of the moderators of the Porn After Love subreddit, but it bears repeating to the partners of pornography addicts: It's not your fault and it has nothing to do with you. My porn addiction was 12…
Continue reading ➞ Partners of Pornography Addicts: It’s Not Your Fault, Ever
In late July and early August, I launched a non-scientific survey to help me better target the TEDx Talk I’ll be giving in early December about pornography addiction. It was designed to capture the beliefs of a wide group of people and best understand to give my presentation. I thought I'd get about 50 responses.…
