Betrayal Trauma is the Partner’s Fallout from Porn Addiction

I often find myself babbling during interviews, saying something that makes a lot of sense I’d never put into word. It’s kind of the same process as therapy. You may think you are babbling for 49 minutes. That 50th minute may be where the magic happens. Likewise, if you can get people to invite you…

Porn Addiction & the Pandemic: Let’s Talk OnlyFans

Note: This entry was originally written in April 2020. There is a version with newer information fro August 2020 you can find HERE. It talks about potential OnlyFans Addiction. I hope you'll read both. I never like to share the names of pornographic websites when I’m educating about pornography addiction. Active porn addicts are reading…

From the Department of Things I Never Thought I’d Say: Watch Me Coach the Naked Podcaster

I like doing podcasts. It scratches a few internal itches that I have. They provide me with someone's attention for an hour, help continually remind me of my battle with pornography and alcohol addiction, allow me to spread an important educational message and are the easiest way to market my books. One of the things…

Stringing Sentences Together When You Don’t Know What Else To Do

I’ve tried to write this multiple times. In fact, I’ve written the phrase “I’ve tried to write this multiple times” multiple times. I’ve created lists of what I’ve wanted to say and tried small chunks. This is the first paragraph you’re reading but it’s probably the 30th paragraph I’ve written. I don’t get writer’s block,…

I Confirmed It: Porn Companies Doing Big Business, Recruitment During ‘Social Distancing’​

When Donald Trump went on TV that Wednesday night in early March as one of the last people to admit what many of us had come to recognize in the previous 72 hours – the Coronavirus was the real deal – one of my first thoughts went to how this was going to be the…