There's been a lot of attention paid to Pornhub in the last week on social media following the New York Times running a well-circulated story about underage pornography, rape and sex trafficking that is passively supported by the site. If you haven't see the story, I urge you to check it out HERE. Other outlets…
Continue reading ➞ This is Not a Loss for Pornhub, Nor A Victory for Us
One of the fantastic things about recovery is that I finally beat the personality quirk of caring what people think. Sure, I postured like I didn't care because I thought it gave an edge to my public persona. In reality, I know I cared about what people - especially strangers - thought more than almost…
Continue reading ➞ Moral Judgement Only Hinders Addiction Recovery
Remember a year ago, when we were planning our Thanksgiving holiday here in America and stores worldwide were hoping it would be a record-shattering Christmas gift buying season? We had no idea what was coming, but now we can all see that next wave of COVID cresting on the horizon, we should be better prepared…
Continue reading ➞ Online Pornography and COVID-19: Round Two
A random benefit of the two inpatient rehab facilities I attended as an alcoholic and pornography addict was the opportunity to get to know, and better understand, addicts of various other substances and behaviors. I’ve never used heroin, had an eating disorder, or couldn’t walk away from the casino. Still, I learned just how much…
Continue reading ➞ Most Addicts Suffer Lack of Sexual Desire, Not Just Pornography Addicts
I know that I say this in every interview and write it more than once a day as one of the moderators of the Porn After Love subreddit, but it bears repeating to the partners of pornography addicts: It's not your fault and it has nothing to do with you. My porn addiction was 12…
Continue reading ➞ Partners of Pornography Addicts: It’s Not Your Fault, Ever
