I go back and forth on the concept of being "recovered." Since April 1, 2014, I have not had a drink. About 10 days earlier, on March 20, I used porn for the last time. If I'm now at a spot where I don't feel the pull toward either and can easily stay away, am…
Continue reading ➞ Trigger This: Tackling One of My Final Fears This Weekend
Apparently, I chose the right time to enter the world of trauma coaching. Sure, if you're on social media it often feels like there are more coaches than potential clients, but I think many people are having a very personal reaction to the pandemic. Upon examining their lives, many are recognizing that they want to…
Continue reading ➞ Trauma Coaching Will Help Redefine Your Future
I wish I could say I'm shocked, but I'm just disappointed in OnlyFans. A good friend forwarded this to me this morning: OnlyFans August 25 announcement Well that sucks. OnlyFans doesn't stand for inclusion, it stands for making money -- tons and tons of money. A ban on pornography was going to be put in…
Continue reading ➞ Update: OnlyFans backs off new ‘No Porn’ stipulation
Like being an addict, I never planned on coaching until I was in it. People who read one of my books, heard an interview I gave, or stumbled upon the website would reach out. Whether it’s my compassionate heart, fear of saying no, or messiah complex, I’d try my best. A couple years ago, I…
Continue reading ➞ My Journey Into the Heart of Therapeutic Coaching
I'm not a scientist and explaining pornography addiction is sometimes an area I get tripped up. I don't want to talk above people, but I don't want to talk down to them. Even when I'm on a podcast where I can't see the host's face, I know it's probably glazing over when I bring up…
Continue reading ➞ Pornography Addiction Better Than I Can Ever Explain It
